Warning: this is a reaction rant.
You're living in a country that is roughly the physical size of southern Ontario, but containing almost 50 million people. Or think of it this way: imagine yourself living in the GTA (Greater Toronto Area), where for every person you see, there are now four people. That is what it is like to live in the Seoul metropolitan region.
I like being in cities, always have. I love the energy of being around a lot of people. But that feeling turns bad when you get stuck in traffic. The Bundang area is only about 15 years old, having formerly consisted of farmers' fields. Now it is the fastest-growing suburb in the Seoul metropolitan region. It also happens to attract a lot of rich folks who, in spite of a very efficient public transit system, all drive cars (or so it seems).
Today, driving home from an afternoon in Seoul, we found the freeway into Bundang congested due to the air show going on at the Seongnam Airport (Bundang is a district of Seongnam). Drivers decided to simply stop on the side of the road to watch the show. But Koreans like to double park (more on that later), so the freeway got narrower and narrower.
Once in Bundang, we went to Carrefour. Big mistake on a Sunday! We had to go straight to the roof to find parking. The roof has elevators only, as the escalators only go to the sixth floor. Anyway, we did a bunch of shopping, and we had the kids in their strollers. When it came time to go home, we were trapped -- there was no way we could get into the elevator to go to the top floor (because the elevator is always full on Sunday!).
So I sent Heather and the girls down to the first floor and I went up to the car. Along the way, as I was taking the escalator to the sixth floor, I looked out the window and saw the bizarre parking pattern of cars on the side of the street. You really have to see this from up above to appreciate it. Some cars were parked in parallel fashion, while others were parked diagonally. Of course, there was double and triple parking, a norm for Korea. Basically, it looked from my vantage point that someone had taken a box of toy cars and thrown them indiscriminantly onto the street.
After getting to the car, it took nearly 20 minutes to drive out of the Carrefour parking lot. I drove around the building to get to Heather and the girls and picked them up, and then decided to go for a drive over to Sunae-dong to get Subway subs. Well, the traffic along the way was bad, of course, and I never did stop to get the subs because there was no place to park.
I wonder if it will ever be this frustrating in Sydney when we go there. I'm suspecting NOT!